Lots of Updates!

Well, I think I have gotten up to date on blogging for a bit!!!!  It's been extremely busy around here this past few months.  I keep thinking I'll have time over a weekend or something to blog, but then the weekend or night comes and goes and it is too late to start a post. 

Addy and Blake are visiting family this week in Michigan...and my, what a difference that makes with the time I have in the evenings!  I have gotten up to date on uploading photos to Shutterfly (I was TWO years behind!) - I am up to date on their baby books now, and last but not least...the blog! 

Enjoy the updates :)

~M

Maternity Thus Far ----- up to 28 weeks!

Well, I didn’t mean to not do a pregnancy update until 28 weeks…that’s for sure.  I have had it on my ‘to do’ list since probably about 16 or 20 weeks of pregnancy.  As you can tell – life is in fast forward over here in MN.  I’m trying to get it to slow down, but apparently time doesn’t listen to me J


Things have been going pretty good with my pregnancy.  For the first trimester – and even well into the 2^nd – I was still feeling rounds of nausea in the morning.  With being the the one home to get the kids and myself going for the day, I’d be lying to say it was all smooth sailing.  There were days I wanted to crawl back into bed.  But duty calls --- life calls so I had to make it through the mornings some how!

Around 16 weeks

I’ve been feeling better for about a month and ½ now…but still have my moments.  I know to keep a base of food in my stomach, that always seems to help!

I’ve been staying more active with this pregnancy than the other 2.  I was the Matron of Honor in a wedding in June, and I know that was a huge motivator for me!  I even continued to run a bit…but I’m done running now until the baby comes.  I still do zumba when my schedule allows, and make it to the gym at work when my schedule lets me, or if I feel up for it. 


I had my glucose test a few weeks back – all is well there!  I was actually nervous about that for a bit, because I would notice some dizziness when I would get hungry.  But, I think the contributor of dizziness was fluids, so I’m trying hard to keep up on my water intake…boring!  I get sick of water really easily, so I’ve been keeping those crystal lights packets in my desk at work.  It’s funny, not pregnant, water doesn’t really bother me.  But sometimes I think it is ‘gross’ tasting these days…which isn’t good!

22 Weeks

I go back and forth on what I think this baby will be – boy or girl?!!  There are certain things that I remember happening with Addy’s pregnancy – like the nausea, and I had a craving for orange juice earlier in both pregnancies.  But then, there are some things with Blake too, like the way I am carrying.  Most people tell me that I am having a boy…I guess we will see.  I go back and forth so this is a true mystery!

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We haven’t really talked about names a whole lot – other than tossing out ones that have been on our list for boys and girls since I was first pregnant with Addy.  There is a name for each gender that has been on our list before that still sticks out in my head (and I think Aaron’s) – so right now, that is what I imagine the name for this baby to be.  But, I think we still need to do our research and give other names a consideration before finalizing that!


A common question I actually get asked is if our third child’s name will be a “C” name.  The fact that our kids names start at the beginning of the alphabet and go in order – is PURE coincidence.  Ironically, one name that often rises to the top does start with a “C”.  But, it isn’t because of the letter it starts with J 

We haven’t started working on the baby’s room and probably won’t until about the time the baby arrives.  We have a bonus room over the garage that will be finished.  It is HUGE – so it’ll be that and also have a spare bedroom in it as well.  Both Addy and Blake were in our room for the first 3 months of their lives…and they were just across the hall from us!


So, knowing that the baby’s room is upstairs, I’m sure he/she will be in our room for at least the first 3 months also, which is why I’m trying to make myself remain calm when I think of trying to complete it.  Aaron’s schedule in the summer is through the roof, so I can’t even imagine him taking on this project until it slows down a bit anyway (he works EVERY Saturday and most weekdays he is at work by 6 a.m. or soon and not home until 7 p.m. or later…EVERY. SINGLE. DAY.).

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One change that we did make in preparation for the baby already is purchasing a new vehicle.  I went back and forth between a van and other options.  I wanted a van for the convenience factor – but I really ---- really ----- couldn’t see myself in a van so I was hesitant.  After talking it through with Aaron, and realizing the only reason I really wanted a van was for our trips to MI and the Cabin – we decided to go with a different vehicle.  If push comes to shove, we can purchase a carrier for on top of the vehicle of we need it!

We ended up with a 2012 Chevy Traverse --- and I loooove it!  We had the option to do a bench or bucket seats in the 2^nd row, and we went with a bench.  It is wide enough that all 3 will fit across there, and that means the 3^rd row is folded down – allowing us more cargo space for the time being.  As the kids grow, we’ll have room for friends in the car with us and such – so it feels like a good choice for me!

My New Ride!

Side note----- I felt like a complete rock-star because I did all of the work to purchase our new vehicle. The research before I started to talk to a sales rep, and then I did some “dealing” on this car and got them to come down in the price, figured out the logistics of loans and what we wanted to finance, etc…and purchased the car all by my BIG GIRL SELF! Aaron was working so it was all me. He test drove the car because they allowed me to take it over night since he couldn’t meet me during the day to check it out…so he DID help with the decision. But I felt pretty proud of myself for handling as much of I did with that!
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I must say, the most favorite part of this pregnancy for me is watching it happen through Addy and Blake’s eyes.  But especially through Addy’s eyes – because she is more aware of what is going on.  Blake talks about the baby in my tummy, but I truly think it is because he is picking up on what Addy is saying, more so than just because he has comprehended it on his own. 

Addy will often ask to feel my tummy, and she loooves feeling the baby move.  The sweetest question she asked me was if the baby was wearing shoes in there…when we were talking about the baby kicking me.  She got a good laugh when I told her, that not only was the baby not wearing shoes right now...but he was NAKED in my belly.  She giggled for a bit! 

I have to assure her it doesn’t hurt (and that it is okay for the baby to kick – but not her!).  She also will randomly glance at me, pat my belly and tell me “your tummy is getting bigger, mama” ----- and let me say here right now she’s the only person that can say that to me and it is endearing and sweet…so you may as well not try agreeing with her!


The following pictures are my pregnancy through the eyes of Addy (who looooves to take pictures on our phones!):



Not sure when this was taken!

25 weeks

27 weeks

 She asks me questions like about where the baby will ride in the car and such.  But she also asks what she gets to teach the baby.  We’ll talk about her teaching the baby to crawl, walk, talk, dance, etc…and she’ll ask for more.  “What else can I teach the baby”?  So fun!


Blake does the same, he asks to touch my belly at night when we are getting tucked in for bed, and will kiss my belly.  But, he obviously doesn’t ask as many questions or isn’t very observant beyond that. 

28 weeks

Slowly but surely, we are all getting ready for this new bundle of joy!  I can’t wait to meet this little person and see how they will grow our family and mold us into our new normal with a family of 5!

4th of July, 2013

Blake, Addy and I headed up to my parents cabin on Wednesday night after swimming lessons for the weekend of the 4^th of July.  Aaron only had the 4^th off, and had to return to work for that Friday and Saturday so he stayed home.  One hard thing with his crazy summer hours – leaving him home on weekends like this.

We didn’t even leave until about 9 at night so arrived to my parents cabin around midnight.  My family had all been there for the entire week, and they were waiting for us to arrive.  The weekend basically consisted of swimming, playing a TON with cousins, watching fireworks, and relaxing.

The first day there was the actual 4^th of July.  The kids had made 4^th of July shirts at daycare on that week so I had them wear those for the festivities J  The lake always has a boat parade, so we decorated the pontoon and headed out on that for the parade as well.

Ready for the boat parade!

Happy 4th of July!

Blake wasn’t so sure what to think of the water at first – which cracks me up because he LOVES LOVES LOVES the water at bath time.  However, he got used to it eventually and then he didn’t want me to take him out J

This water thing isn't so bad :)

Tubing!!!!

 Addy enjoyed swimming.  She got a little nervous because of the temp of the water at first, but she warmed up to it quickly.

Swimming and relaxing!

Blake wasn’t so excited about the fireworks at first.  He didn’t like the loud bangs…he cuddled in with my sister Angela and eventually he warmed up to it!  He actually ended up falling asleep during them while we sat on the pontoon and watched them.

Those are loud :(

Addy enjoyed them, but she was just tired at that point in the evening – so she actually asked if she could go to bed during the fireworks.  The pontoon was in the boat lift on my parent’s dock – we hadn’t gone out into the water…so my dad carried her up and tucked her in during the fireworks. J 

Goofing around with Drew and watching fireworks....

Not even 10 minutes later...ready to crash! LOL

The rest of the weekend was spent doing more of the same…swimming, playing, bonfires, etc.  The kids always have a blast at the cabin – playing with all of the cousins.  Not only my nieces and nephews – but my uncle Don has a cabin right next to my parent’s cabin.  We share a driveway to our cabins and a dock…so we spend a lot of the time mixed between the 2 families.  My cousins, Kristen and Michelle, were there with their kids as well.  So all the 2^nd cousins played also!

Messy boy from playing in the sand!

Addy and Chloe!

Taking a break from playing and swimming for a little snack!

It’s actually really nice, because my niece Brynne is getting old enough that she can kind’ve keep an eye on the kids when they are playing games in the yard.  And especially with my cousins’ kids there as well, I don’t worry too much because they are even older and great with keeping an eye on Blake and Addy.

That helped me feel like I could relax a bit more than I have in the past, having to be 2 steps behind whatever the kids would be doing when they were outside to make sure they didn’t venture toward the dock or the water on their own J

Hopefully we’ll get to have a weekend with Aaron up at the cabin before the weather gets cold again.  Likely, it’ll be Labor Day weekend, as that one he knows he’ll have a 3 day weekend for.  Looking forward to it!!

Sunfish!

We signed Addy up for her first swimming lessons last month – she took the “Sunfish” lessons at the local YMCA.  We aren’t members there – but I decided to go there since

1. It was in Rochester and I could go straight from work to getting her at daycare to the lessons.

2. It was indoors so not weather dependent.

At the pool in Pine Island, the times just didn’t’ work out for me to consider it.  I really enjoyed the Y’s lessons, and have her signed up for the next level in August.

One of her first days....she's the one in the 2 piece

Taking turns jumping in and being caught :)

It was pretty cool to watch her progress.  Sunfish lessons were described as “transitioning” to be independent in the water…so they really just worked on things like going under water and getting comfortable and confident.  We don’t get to be around water as much as I would like (I guess I would say as consistent as I would like) so I really want her to start gaining some confidence.

The first week of lessons, when they would have you get out of the water (that she had to do by herself) she would go as close to the zero depth entrance as the teacher would let her, and then climb out.  Week 2, she’d get out wherever she was told to get out.  Just that in itself made me proud!

Week 2 - actually getting out of the water where they told her too :)

She doesn’t like to put her face under water, but she really would give it a try when they had her blow bubbles, or dip her face in real quick – it’ll come with time!

It was perfect timing as well, because after lessons, we left on the night hers finished for the 4-day weekend at the cabin.  So, she got to do some more swimming right away on the lake!

Working on putting our face in the water

Cute story, a girl that helps out at daycare had asked Addy during the weeks of her lessons if she was learning to swim like a fish, and Addy responded, “Just a sunfish!” (since that was the name of her class!).  Made me giggle :)

Having fun on the last day of class....they turned on the fountains and the slide for about 10 minutes!

Next class: Pike --- here we come!

Blaker-boy at 2 & 1/2

So many different words run through my head when I think about describing my boy at 2 ½ years old. 

Sweet – he still is my cuddler – and with those big blue eyes and long lashes, he melts most people’s heart pretty quickly!  My friend Holly’s husband made the comment about how sweet Blake is and that with the way he looks at you – Eric was pretty sure he’d do anything Blake would ask him to do :). 

I joke often, but have heard it from others too --- that he’s going to have lots of girls crushing on him if he keeps this up!  With those lashes and those looks  ---- AND the fact that he is a cuddler -----that’s a girls’ “dream guy" right there!

My sweet man!

Goofball – this kid cracks me up on a daily basis.  Him and Addy do some pretty silly things together and he is constantly giggling at her, himself, or me.  He loves to laugh – that is for sure.  And this kid has got the best laugh – it comes straight from the gut.  I can never get a good video of it, because usually I am too late, but you just have to trust me…

…if you need a pick me up in your day, you can come on over – if you get a laugh out of Blake, it is guaranteed that you will smile, no matter how crappy you may feel!

Goofball!  Wearing mama's sandals...I have an even better picture of him the other day sneaking out of my room in just his diaper and my strappy silver sandals I just wore for a wedding last month...but I'll spare him that embarassment going on the internet :)

Copy-cat – Blake pretty much copies EVERYTHING that Addy says.  Half the time, he may not even know what he is saying, like “I want to wear a dress today”, but if Addy says it, guaranteed that Blake will say it about 2 seconds later. 

Our conversations at dinner go around the table where Addy says something or asks me something – I answer.  Blake says or asks the same thing – I answer.  Then Addy says “Blake, why do you always copy me” and I say “It’s because he loooooves YOU!”  In which she says, “No, that’s not why…”

…and we repeat typically a few times each evening J

Jean said it best the other day when she called him a Mocking Bird

In regards to vocabulary – he actually is really starting to take off.  He says lots of sentences these days, so I couldn’t even begin to list what words he all knows.  One thing I have noticed is that he will say more of a ‘g’ or ‘k’ sound for some t-word.  For example, a duck is a guck.  He does that with other words too.  I’m sure it is something he’ll outgrow.

BOY – this kids LOOOOVES to be a boy…get dirty, do work outside with daddy…he is all about it!  I would say he is a good mixture though – he does love to do things with me like bake, sing, etc.  But, he also doesn’t have as much interest in crafts as Addy does or ever did.  Our daycare Julie mentions that too, because they do a craft almost every day, but most of the time, you can tell he wasn’t as interested in it as the others based on the end result! 

Helping Daddy with our landscape outside

Being a landscaper worker comes with a price...he got a sore finger that he is holding up here ( look at those eyes though....seriously melts this mama!)

Inspecting the healing of his sore finger...

Ouch!  A landscape block fell on this finger and OMG did it look like it hurt.   I feel like an "owie" like this is something boys get...or guys!

Those are just a few of the words that come to mind when I think of my Blaker-boy.  He is growing up all to quickly.  I still think of him as my baby, but then I realize he is well beyond those years, approaching the end of his toddler years (sigh) and before we know it…this kid will be in preschool and kindergarten too!

He isn’t completely potty-trained yet, but he definitely is getting the concept.  I haven’t pushed it too hard yet, but I think we will be doing that soon.  When we run out of diapers for him, I don’t think I’m going to get anymore.  He will go to the bathroom on the toilet when we ask him, and has even started to tell us sometimes that he has to go.  So --- he’s starting to be ready to work it into his routine :)

Blake has pretty much always loved his bath, and still does.  He actually asks to take one almost every night, and if I’d let him – he’d be a prune each and every time!

Swimming in the tub!

 Speaking of night time, it has to be mentioned that Blake is a STINKER at bed time!  He does NOT want to go to bed.  I think he thinks we party hard after bed…because he asks me if I’m going to go the park, or his new thing of asking me if I’m going to go dancing when I am tucking him in.  What a goof!  The majority of the nights, he comes out several times, and my patience wears thinner with each time I have to walk those stairs and put him in bed.  Usually, he ends up sad and stays in bed…but I hate that he has to get scolded each night.  We try and lay with him for a bit, talk with him and have him settle down – but I refuse to wait for him to fall asleep.  He needs to be able to fall asleep on his own…but OMG what a stinker this kid can be. 

He’s pretty persistent – I have no idea if this is a trait of mine or Aaron’s as a child, but I do know, I can’t wait for the stage of fighting bedtime to be over with :)

I would say that Blake is somewhat of a mama’s boy – if I had to have him ‘tagged’ as either a mama or daddy’s boy.  Although, it really does seem to depend on the day.  I get the BEST greeting every night when I pick him up.   A huge - huge - smile, him running to me yelling “mama” and then when I pick him up he hugs right into me. 

Best. Feeling. Ever.

There is still a debate on who Blake looks like.  I see both of us in him.  There are some pictures of me when I’m little, and you can’t deny that we have some of the same “looks” – but I know that when we are in MI, we basically here that he is Aaron all over again.  So, who knows!!!!

I sure do love this little man!

Addy Jane @ 4 years Old

Addalyn definitely keeps me on  my toes at 4 years old.  In a good way!  She is a very smart little girl so you can't get much by her.  She is listening to EVERYTHING you are saying and she will correct you if she thinks you are wrong. 

She LOVES to sing and listen to music in the car -- she enjoys being outside -- she loves playing with her little bro -- likes to play with her dolls, barbies, and princesses, but yet she'll play with Blake's trucks just as easy.  She actually chose a play gun as a prize at the Duck Pond Game in June, copying her brother.  That cracked me up! 

She got these flowers from a boy at the gas station :)

 She is "Miss Literal"....just like her daddy.  You can't say anything without them correcting you...even if they knew what you meant.  For example, the other day I told her to go upstairs and take a bath with daddy ---- of course meaning that he was going to help her and Blake in the bath while I did some things downstairs.  However - she giggled at me and said "daddy's not going to take a bath!"  She corrects me on things in this sort of way all the time.

I wish you could hear Aaron - because he does the exact same thing!  Even when they know what I mean :) 

Wearing daddy's work boots!

 She is my GIRLY GIRL!!  She will choose a skirt or dress to wear 9 days out of 10.  And, if she did choose a short/pant outfit, it is probably because it fit better with what she was doing that day. 

For example, she has a pair of athletic shorts/tank that look like what I would call a running outfit...it is the type of stuff that I wear running.  The other day, she chose that outfit, because we were going to a track meet for kiddos to participate in that night...so of course she had to wear the part, rather than a dress :)

Other than for occasions such as that, you will likely find her in a skirt or dress no matter what we are doing!

She also wants her hair down all the time.  I always want to have it up since she plays so hard and has longer, wavy hair, but she wants it down daily.  We typically compromise with a side braid, which lets me get her hair out of her face.

The outfit she chose to wear to her 4-year well-child check up...the same one she wore to a wedding earlier this summer.  Why not??!!!  She definitely got lots of compliments on her outfit at the doctor's!

For the most part, I would say that Addy is still a daddy's girl.  She just loves it when her daddy is coming home!  The way that our house is set up, we can see the cars turning up the road before coming to our house from the back....and she always looks for him and likes to announce when he is home!  Then she usually runs to meet him at the garage. 

They have a special bond that I love. 

Hanging out with daddy one day, he captured this picture on his phone.

We definitely have a good relationship as well.  She likes to do things with me like crafts, baking, and shopping.  I think that as we get older, we'll spend lots of time together doing some "girl things" --- especially if this little one that will come in October is a boy.  We'll have to stick together being the girls of the house, LOL.

Me and Addy on Mother's Day (she chose this dress that day as well...it was like 40 degrees out but she insisted).  The sticker I am wearing says "Best Mom Ever".  It came in my Barbie card from her!

I would say that Addalyn likes to do things that make her "big".  Like exercise, read, color, she tries to write words all the time, and really wants to do all of the things her bigger cousins do, or anyone older.  She loves to play with the older girls in the neighborhood.  Jordyn and McKenna are her babysitter, and she loves to go to their house.  They will have her over and play with her for a bit before I go get her, which is sooooo nice of them because they are in 5th and 7th grade :) 

Exercising with mama!

Doing her exercises....that is what she calls the Wii.  She'll say, "Dad, can I please exercise" when she wants to play the Wii".  What a goof!

In August Addy will start going to another daycare 2 days a week...one that is here in Pine Island.  She'll be doing that so in the fall she can go to preschool during the day here while we are at work.  Depending on how she does, she will then start kindergarten next fall.  We'll see!  It's crazy to think it is already that time of her life where we are thinking about school.  I get nervous....once she starts that, she'll never just "play all day" like you can at the age of 4!

Addy is also sooooooo ready to be a big sister to a little baby.  I plan on updating about that when I do a post on my pregnancy, but it definitely needs to be mentioned here.  She really is a great big sis to Blake - even if they are pretty close in age, she always tries to be a bit "motherly" to him -- so I can just imagine how she will be with the third!

It is so much fun to watch Addalyn grow.  I'm loving every stage of her life and can't wait to see what the future has in store with this girl.  She's such a sweet-heart!

It's a Barbie Party!

We celebrated Addy's birthday on June 2nd.  Addy went back and forth about what type of birthday party she wanted...Doc McStuffins, Princess, Dora (she still likes this show!), a "flower" party...she kept changing her mind!  So, finally the Thursday before her party, I took her to a party store and had her choose some plates and such ----- she decided to go with a Barbie themed party.  Sort've funny, that one wasn't even in her list of choices until the store :)

4 years old!

 We had her party on a Sunday afternoon.  My parents, sisters and their families made it as well as Aaron's mom Jean.  It was a nice sunny afternoon, and the party was a big success!

 Addy got lots of craft-like presents (Doc McStuffins paints, coloring book, etc)...and books, movies, toys for outside.  She got a scooter from me and Aaron, which she has fun playing with in our driveway.

Testing out her new scooter!

Daddy trying out her new scooter...I guess we know where she gets her goofiness from!

My goofy girl!

 Funny side story - Aaron told all of Addy's cousins that he would pay them 1 cent for every rock they picked up in our yard (we had a TON of rocks in our yard that we needed to get rid of before we could work on landscape).  The kiddos were ALLLLLL about that and they spent most of the time in between presents, supper, and cake outside digging up rocks.

They got pretty intense...the older girls picked up over 300 rocks each and the boys probably did over 100.  Aaron had to run to the store to get some cash for them from the ATM to stick true to his word!

Rock Picking :)

 Like I do every year...I made Addy's cake.  I always stress out over it being perfect, but I wouldn't have it any other way.  I loooooove taking the time to design the cake in my head and figure out how to make it come together. 

Addy's 4!  Barbie Cake :)

Singing to the birthday girl :)

Her little bro approved of the cake :)

 I CAN NOT believe how quickly 4 years has come and gone since miss Addalyn Jane was born.  She is such a joy to have in our lives.   I sure do love her to the moon and back - a million, zillion, trillion times! (something that I say to her EVERY night when I tuck her in!)